Nothing you read will be as important as this advice. You’re a girl in a band. If you’re one of the lucky ones, you’ll have this amazing opportunity to tour the world with your best friends. Usually this group of best friends and friends-to-be consists of 30 men and maybe one other woman. You are automatically the other, and it’s always difficult entering a new situation that way. It’s unfortunate to say, but there’s basically no winning in this situation. If you act too nice, you’ll be called a flirt; you kiss someone, you’re a slut; or you spend a lot of alone time and you are a snobby bitch. Even if everyone on the tour is a total peach, the fans will criticize everything from the size of your thighs and messy haircut to your willingness to meet them after a show when you have a 105 degree fever.